Mr. Lake's Math Site
Well, shit. Didn't go well and now there is an asshole in the house. So apparently asking nicely or saying it is over isn't enough, so on to plan b.
Phones have tracking apps, so if it is as bad as this, we should assume the phone has a tracking app on it. So don't take the phone on any of these missions. It would give you away. Also, don't take the kids on these missions, they aren't good at keeping secrets. We are gonna have to start building a new set up in secret.
First, get a PO box, a bank account, a storage unit, and a separate secret phone that lives at the storage unit. Also, set up a new email that only gets used on that phone. Assume your computer and computer history is compromised, so you can either use this secret phone or add a computer to the secret list.
All of your work to set up a new life should be done on the secret phone and secret computer. Don't look that shit up on your main phone and computer, if the problem is this bad, then assume both of those are compromised and supervised.
You need the PO box so that your new secret life doesn't show up in your regular mail box and rat you out. You need to start hiding money in your new account so that you have an escape fund. You should start taking important documents and things to your storage so that they are there and you can walk out of your life any moment without worries. Make sure that they disappear slowly so it is not a noticeable amount of missing stuff. Make sure the money you put in the bank is cash so it doesn't show up on your other accounts. Make sure the money used to pay for the phone, storage, po box all comes out of the secret account. None of these things can show up on your main computer, phone or accounts, because you should assume they are watching all of those.
The list will get longer over time, but for now this is a reasonable start.